I respectfully disagree with your OB about once a malpositioned babe, it will happen again.....not so, not so. May I ask why your first birth was a cs?
While optimum time space betweeen births after a cs is 2 yrs. for maximum healing of the uterus and surrounding tissue, it is not written in stone. I have done HBAC's at 15 months space interval.
Is there a midwife you can make an appointment with to sit down and talk to in your area? You'll will probably not find anyone in the western medical world who will treat you as anything more than a surgical canidate. Your strength and belief in yourself are what is most needed now. Visit the ICAN site, read books by Nancy Weiner Cohen, Enjoy your pregnancy and ask your baby what is the best possible birth for the 2 of you. Know that the hospital is always there. Go deep and find what it is you need and seek that out, Everything is possible.
There is a voice inside of you
That whispers all day long,
"I feel this is right for me,
I know that this is wrong."
No teacher, preacher, parent, friend
Or wise man can decide
What's right for you--just listen to
The voice that speaks inside."
— Shel Silverstein