As you can imagine, these exact questions come up quite often on here. One thing you can do is check back in our previous and archived posts and see what answers women have received over the years.
Another excellent thing to do is to click on the main site button above and check out Midwifery Today's website. Click on books and you will find a gem called Paths to Becoming a Midwife. This would be a great resource for you. (Makes a great holiday or birthday gift! Put it on your list!!) Sign up for our free e-newsletter and ask for a subscription to the journal, Midwifery Today.
Check out your local midwifery groups. If you don't know where to turn, find out who the local independent childbirth educators are in your area and start making calls and befriending those women. They will most likely know the skinny on what's what in the area. Befriend doulas, too, as they will also have a finger on the pulse of your birthing community.