Congrats again!
I can somewhat understand your dilemma but there are a few things to consider some that have a lot to do with actually becoming a midwife and some that don't that are more like creature comforts.
My opinion is coming from a place of high regard for Vandy and as a resident of TN but there are some other real things to consider some trivial some huge:
1. When it gets cold here it gets cold, sloppy wet messy cold. Bried but cold none the less.
2. If you have kiddos public schools in our state are struggling and even more so in Davidson county
3. Jobs pay less here than in FL as a whole and our cost of living really isn't much cheaper. Not sure what profession your hubby is in but...
4. We do not have mass transit and parking at Vandy is a beast
5. Your hubby will be subject to out of state tutition to continue his education on top of Vanderbilt's astronomical tuition for you ( which I believe is at least 2x as much as UF)
6. At the most recent open house I was directly told that integration/practicum rotations are out of town 2-3 hours away and out of state (at least 1 semester) to get in your experience, this is without exception. The nurse midwifery group at Vandy has very few slots for rotating students through and once the mamas are risked out they go to the OB residents. Additionally, the state of TN is still not as midwifery friendly as it ought to be and even during orientation they stress that you may need to move outside of city or state limits to find work which means one more interuption to hubby's education path if his credits will transfer.
7. The campus and immediate community is not diverse and you will note major disparities in all sorts of arenas within the city limits. But this may also hold true for Florida.
8. We do not have a beach!!! Our lake is called the cumberland punch and swimming in it is at your own risk, seriously.
Above are the major cons I come up with. Not to scare you but to keep it very real considering you have a huge decision to make.
My pros are from personal experience. I completed a public health internship at Vandy more than 10 years ago and had a awesome experience with a stellar preceptor from maternal fetal medicine. I also, despite all the cons above plan to apply there, go into major debt and then pray that I get a choice NHS, Rural Health Service or Indian Reservation assignment to help repay my loans.
The Dean of the Graduate Nursing Program as well as the faculty for the Midwifery and FNP program are very very approachable
Local Vandy grads that I have met are well respected in the rural communities and outside the state and find awesome opportunities for international training. Also have no difficulty securing employment in rural areas and outside the state.
Local MANA folks are wonderful and receptive
I've not noted any CNM vs. CPM vs. CM tension and I've lived here over 10 years circulating mainly on the periphery of the "movement" but very much aware.
Stellar simulation labs for practicing skills before touching real folks
Mama and Babas are very very receptive to the midwifery model here and it is of course becoming envogue, however there are those that would say the Vandy version is still a bit too medicinalized
Vandy recently opened a new birth center, though it is only used for preantal care, but they call it a birth center
Vandy also offers a DNP and a PhD for MAsters prepared nurses and there is also an CNM/FNP option if you want to broaden your scope of service.
Good luck on the decision making process. Hopefully my input has been some help. If not scrap it all flip a coin and say a prayer!
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